Posted by Happyflower on March 7, 2007, at 20:56:31
In reply to Re: Termination sucks big time - (Oh Happyflower)) » Happyflower, posted by scentedgarden on March 6, 2007, at 8:06:44
Hi Scentedgarden,
I am sorry I made you cry, but it sounds like it is bringing up your issues too with termination. I also HATE that word. So is he the terminator? I would say so because it is killing my heart. He will always be in my heart, but I would like him in my life also. A lot of people don't know their therapists personally. I do , he even says so himself, and I have seen some of his bad sides too, so I have a realistic view of him. My next appointment is in 4 weeks, we tried this a long time ago, and it didn't work. I remember calling him half way through just to touch base and he was incrediblly kind to me. I think seeing him at the gym will help, he acknowleges me each time he sees me looking into my eyes and smiling, so that feels good. I know he cares about me and likes me so I have a feeling after talking to other therapist I know, that it is hard for them too, especially with a client that they have had in therapy for so long.
I am so sorry you are hurting, I know how much your T meant to you. I hope my T doesn't do what your T is doing, that is so hurtful and scary to think about. Well I hope we can get through this together. Even though we have lost touch, I still enjoy talking to you. You are a gem! ;-)
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