Posted by Happyflower on March 7, 2007, at 20:45:46
In reply to Re: Termination sucks big time » Happyflower, posted by LadyBug on March 5, 2007, at 23:26:15
Hi Ladybug,
I believe you when you tell me you know how it feels. 10 years is a long time, compaired to my 2 years, I wouldn't know how to end that. He knows that I am missing him because I told him right out, I said, Boy am I going to miss you. Of course in was in response to his witty conversation. Then after I said that, he was like, where are you going? I laughed, but I can tell he isn't ready to hear about my missing him yet. I guess he is right, he isn't gone yet. But at least I got it out. I think the feeling is mutual, I even have a feeling we might have some sort of relationship after therapy. (can't go into details about that)I even mentioned
when we were making our next appointment that missing him is so hard and that it pisses me off. I said it sort of fast but I know he heard me. I never saw him jump out of his chair so fast. LOL
I will have to check out the book you recomended, it sounds like a good one, maybe I can even use when I am ready to end my marriage.
I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. Both hips, how long is he going to be out of commision? Is he expecting you to take care of him during this? Someday I am going to be so happy to let go of my marriage, it is really making me sad especially when I see happy couples. Well thank you so much for everything. Talk to you later........
Happyflower
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