Posted by scentedgarden on March 6, 2007, at 16:43:04
In reply to Re: Book link » 10derHeart, posted by LadyBug on March 6, 2007, at 12:39:12
HI LadyBug...
We've never really talked much on the boards but I hope you dont mind...ive taken the advise on the 'good goodbyes' book, and have just now ordered a copy from Amazon UK... Tis not a cheap book... but I feel right now that anything thAT HELPS deal with the deep aching pain of therapy ending is worth every penny..!! I just wanted to say thanks for the link to the book in the first place>>> I have a few other books on this subject, and I can honestly say that they have helped me to cope ...GOD KNOWS WHAT I'D BE LIKE WITHOUT THEM...( the books as rthey bring a huge amount of understanding and light to the difficult to discuss matter in the therapy session with my therapist!
I BEGUN READING ON THE SUBJECT OVERR A YEAR AGO...but it was mostly from the standpoint of an observer of my own pain, as at the time I couldn't face it full on, so at first I distance my self from believing it weould happen to me one day... (Crying NOW) as it really is bout THE MOST pain i ever felt in my entire life... Therapy has opened me up ...>> brought my inner child back to life...>>> NOw I'm more vulnerable in a good way...as I don't have all those coping machanism inplace (walls around me ) to keep people away from getting close to me....
My therAPIST AND i WORKED VERY HARD AT BREAKING DOWN THOSE WALLS.. It's becasue they are now all but down, the PAIN IS EXCRUCIATING to leave her... PLease anyone dont think too badly of my therapist, she is human... and we all can make mistakes... can't we..??
Many thanks again to you happyflower for bringing this subject onto the boards, and for the sharing everyone does here... You're very special bunch of peoples.. God Bless you... Scentedgarden
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