Posted by sunnydays on February 26, 2007, at 18:17:07
In reply to Re: update » sunnydays, posted by gardenergirl on February 26, 2007, at 17:58:59
> Hi,
> I can see why you didn't feel like saying it after such a hard session. It must be a bit confusing to go from feeling that love to feeling out of sorts with him. I'm sure it will flow back again to love.**** I know it will. It's just anger is so so scary for me, so being angry with the person that I had been feeling closest to is even more scary. I'm so afraid that I did something horribly wrong.
It sounds like you're doing hard work in therapy. That sure can take a lot out of you, and heck you're right. Who wants to pay to feel worse, eh? I've told my clients early on in the process that they might leave feeling worse than when they came in, and that was "ok" if that happened in that it's part of the process. OF course feeling worse isn't supposed to linger on for days, usually.
***** Yeah. I've been doing therapy for two years now, so I've had plenty of times I've felt worse. But I just feel so hurt right now. I think I remember you're a T -- can you really adjust your voice so it sounds how you want it? And if you're less warm one day, does that mean that you're mad at the client or something?
>
> Anyway, I'm going off on a tangent, like I have all day.
>*** That's ok, I like tangents.
> Take care, sweetie. Hugs to you if that's safe.
*** Thanks gg.sunnydays
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