Posted by Dinah on February 26, 2007, at 10:33:45
In reply to have you ever told your T 'i love you'?, posted by sunnydays on February 25, 2007, at 21:20:52
I'm sorry. While what I said was true, I think my post may have come across as a bit flippant.
I know what a big deal it is to say it the first time, and I worked up to it in baby steps so that it wasn't any shock to either of us when I used the "L" word. And, as I said, I put in soooo many qualifiers. Both because I know some therapists haven't received much training on what to do when an opposite sex client says something like that, and because I have no real self confidence about my loveability and I didn't want to get hurt.
So I am really glad that my therapist took it well.
I really am sorry. I'm just not myself right now at all.
poster:Dinah
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