Posted by widget on February 6, 2007, at 7:39:25
In reply to Re: sorry E (loooong) » Karolina, posted by ElaineM on February 5, 2007, at 23:56:32
To Elaine, I, too, see some red flags here. Believe me, it would be very tempting if my therapist treated me like your's does. I have NO idea how he really feels about me and it drives me crazy. So, if this happened in my situation, I don't know what I'd do but I would be very intrigued. I will admit to jealousy on my part but not in that I would take this from you. But, I am so confused at this point, that such admissions on my therapist's part might send me over the edge. Especially the part about him being jealous if you had a date with another. It would be better for HIM if he worked on these feelings with another therapist, not with you. You are the patient and the most vulnerable. He needs to take care of you by being the grown-up and the therapist. Who knows what the right answer is but be careful! I relate so much to what you write and feel a great empathy for you. Good luck. You are definitely NOT alone.
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