Posted by Dinah on January 11, 2007, at 20:41:25
In reply to Jealousy, Seperateness, NewYrs, Now -long***TrigSH, posted by ElaineM on January 11, 2007, at 15:59:49
I think you know he really isn't acting as your therapist any more. He hasn't been for a while. He's acting as a suitor. Is this what you want in a suitor? People are at their best when they're wooing, and this doesn't sound all that best. I can't imagine what he'd be like once he considered you his.
I know how hard it is to break off long term relationships. I do understand that. But you need to find someone to help you with all this. A real therapist. I know you've been having trouble finding someone to be your therapist, but don't give up.
You're worth more than to give up on yourself.
poster:Dinah
thread:721410
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