Posted by philyra on January 13, 2007, at 8:26:10
In reply to Re: Jealousy, Seperateness, NewYrs, Now -long***Tr » annierose, posted by ElaineM on January 11, 2007, at 22:33:19
> I appreciate your anger - I do - I know it comes from a good place. But I fear that I see a side of him no one else can. That if you could hear his voice, and see his eyes when he speaks...
Hi Elaine,
I don't think we've ever posted to each other before, but I felt moved to respond to your thread. I just wanted to say that I believe that you see a side of your T we don't see. You two have become very close and I get that the feelings are very deep there.
I wanted to say also that I think leaving him would be the best thing for both of you. Not just for you. It sounds like it will be very painful, but it will be healthy for him as well as for you. I really believe that bringing this relationship to your other T's attention and making it possible for him to be reported, and/or your terminating, would help him get the help he needs.
Maybe that will help to think about.
take care,
philyra
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