Posted by bil on January 11, 2007, at 20:31:00
In reply to Jealousy, Seperateness, NewYrs, Now -long***TrigSH, posted by ElaineM on January 11, 2007, at 15:59:49
Elaine-
I don't know how to get these quote things to work, so I can't pick out bits of your original post to refer to... but all I want to say is that this man is TROUBLE!!! NOT you!He sounds like he is being very manipulative and controlling- and very scary... he is playing on how low you feel about yourself to give himself power.
Do NOT feel sorry for him- and I'm sorry if I sound like I'm ranting, but there is no way in h**l this person should be calling himself a therapist. I might be a messed up individual myself, but I've taken enough counselling courses myself to know that this man has broken every ethical rule in the book.
Get on the phone to your lady T. and tell her exactly what he is doing to you... please, please please! You are NOT bad, and you do not deserve this... your intuition makes you 'want to throw up' at some of the things he has said to you- well, that is your inner wisdom telling you that this guy is NOT out for your best interests!
He is NOT weak, and he is NOT fragile... tapeworms might be little things, but PARASITES CAUSE DAMAGE!
This man is not a therapist... he's botulism. Honestly! ! !
Bil
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