Posted by fayeroe on October 15, 2006, at 19:38:28
In reply to more2 * abuse trig, posted by ElaineM on October 15, 2006, at 12:48:50
Elaine, I don't know you and I hope you won't mind my jumping into the thread.....I can feel that you are in a lot of pain right now and I wish I could do something to help you out. I could bring tea and we could just sit and relax for awhile.
When I have the intrusive thoughts, I turn to music. If I can't sleep I play a favourite CD pretty loud right by the head of the bed so that I have to pay attention to the lyrics. That might help you. A hot bath, as Li suggested, helps me at times.
You "T" worries me. It sounds as if you're taking care of him more than he caring for you. That can turn into a really sticky situation as you aren't able to heal him.
He has to turn to someone else and confide in a another professional. He also needs to realize what a tremendous burden he is putting up you, his patient. I suggest, gently, that you consider seeing someone else before your situation gets any worse.
Good Luck, Pat
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