Posted by annierose on August 27, 2006, at 19:58:09
In reply to meltdown (sooo long) **triggers, posted by ElaineM on August 27, 2006, at 19:04:17
What will you do?
Well, I hope you will seek good solid theraputic help. You need help Elaine. This "T?" has never been a therapist to you. Worse. He is the worse kind of therapist out there that says they are there to help, instead inflict their pain on their suffering client and hold you responsible for not helping them. It's not the way it should be. It's not the kind of help you need or deserve.
I feel so strongly that this T(?) should refer you elsewhere - better yet you should seek help on your own. You deserve so much more. You deserve so much better. You deserve proper help. You deserve a chance to talk about all your hurts, heal your pain. I do believe that the physical pain will get better once you get proper psychological treatment. Our bodies and minds are connected. He can see you as a girlfriend. To say the two of you are engaged in a theraputic relationship undermines the integrity of the profession.
I like you Elaine. I am so sorry you feel so much pain everyday of your life. I wish I had a magic wand that would find a therapist that could help you. You need that. It is such a precious gift.
I am so thankful for all the boundaries my therapist has in place in her practice. It's just about me.
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