Posted by orchid on June 22, 2006, at 13:50:15
In reply to Re: I failed again » Tamar, posted by orchid on June 22, 2006, at 12:26:38
I don't know if you think like me, but if I were in that position (and you know I have been), the harder issue that I would have found difficult to accept would be the question, "Well if he didn't know it already, that is ok. But then, why doesn't he care enough about me, to spend a little effort and time to learn it and help me out? Is that such a difficult thing? I know I learnt it, and all the babblers learn it even without a degree in therapy, so why can't he jsut do this little bit of stretch and learn it? Why doesn't he care that much about me?"
That, for me, would have the most difficult to accept. Not that he didn't know it already, but that he wouldn't care to learn it even now. It would make me doubt my own worth of being cared about.
I am not sure if you have been plagued with this kind of questioning. But if you are, then you know you are not alone.
And no, we can never find out the answer. As you said, most professionals, just won't question themselves or learn new things.
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