Posted by Frida on June 19, 2006, at 1:11:40
In reply to Re: (((((Dinah))))), posted by annierose on June 18, 2006, at 19:59:51
Dear Dinah,
This is so painful, all you've shared, all that has happened. He's taking things personally, getting defensive, as if he weren't your T, he is hurting you over and over.. :-(
After 10 years, I so agree with GG and all the others..he knows you well enough to know how much this is hurting you and how hard you were trying to repair this relationship and how much stability and safety mean to you...
I think I would write him a letter, I would just be totally honest and tell him how much I'm hurting and all I am feeling. A letter would give him time to think and feel, instead of acting defensively.
No matter what you decide..I think that a letter at least would give you the relief of knowing you said everything and there weren't unsaid things between youThis shouldn't be happening :-(
I am so sorry
Frida
poster:Frida
thread:657367
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