Posted by annierose on June 18, 2006, at 19:59:51
In reply to (((((Dinah))))) » Dinah, posted by Tamar on June 18, 2006, at 17:32:43
I just keep wondering, what the fear is. My T tells me that my fear (sometimes) is a reaction to a distant memory, that what I'm really afraid of, well that has already happened.
This seems like an obvious discussion your T should be working through with you, why you stayed in town, why he is considered first, what do you think you'll lose if you lose him? what does he give you?
I want you to be happy. You seemed to be clinging onto a sinking ship, but you see a life raft just in the distance, you know you should take a leap of faith ... you're not sure you can swim the distance to the raft, there's an inner struggle going on internally, but you know the future is with the life raft. TAKE THE CHANCE! We know where the sinking ship is heading.
I love you Dinah. This doesn't sound like a healthy theraputic relationship any longer.
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