Posted by fairywings on January 22, 2006, at 21:49:54
In reply to Re: What do you think about the fit?, posted by Declan on January 22, 2006, at 16:14:37
Hi declan,no, it's not cbt, but lately it feels more that way. i don't remember what he called it.
he does share a lot, and that has been helpful to me bec. it helps me see how real relationships are supposed to function, and i think that's his goal. if he ever stopped sharing at this point i'd quit bec. i'd take it personally. not bec. i expect him to share vital details, but i think he's shared where he felt he could draw comparisons, and i could learn something.
i think one thing is he wanted me to see, and be hopeful about, is that he had a similar background and he's learned to cope. at least that's what i took away from it.
i like the style, but i'd think it has more drawbacks for him.
fw
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