Posted by orchid on December 13, 2005, at 5:09:23
In reply to Re: I think you should give it more time. » orchid, posted by happyflower on December 12, 2005, at 21:48:12
Ok. Ultimately it is your choice and I know it is different for different persons. Plus I had been very conservative about divorce partly because of my country and culture as well. Maybe you wouldn't have the same issues.
But still, it is better to take time before making a drastic decision. For all you know, your husband might turn around quicker than most, and you might live happily ever after - that is, if you want to stay married to him.
But please don't act on this with still having very strong feelings about your T. I think it might end up to be a hasty decision. Atleast wait till you resolve your feelings about your T (one way or the other) before proceeding with your divorce.
> I respectlly disagree. I don't believe in being a martar, I have tried everything. Sorry, but therapy has made me stronger and a better happier person. I have been getting nothing but postive results from others around me about the changes in me. I deserve to be happy, I have been miserable for months because of my marriage. It is effecting everyone especially my kids.
> Everyone is different. I for one would NEVER stay married to a guy who has physically abused me. I deserve better. I know I do. It's been almost a year now, I am not going through another year of this.
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