Posted by daisym on November 8, 2005, at 17:25:42
In reply to Re: I'm afraid (slight trigger), posted by Annierose on November 8, 2005, at 9:36:49
I smiled at one of them -- and noticed she was wearing work out gear, so much sexier than anything I've ever shown up in! Grrr.
I left in tears so didn't look at the next one. I'll just pretend that the person was there to see one of the other therapists, k?
My son is going through another bout of anxiety/stomach aches. Hard to know what to do next, I feel guilty because he is probaly feeling a lot of my gloom How could he not? This is when being the only child left must really stink.
As far as being able to talk about sex, it took some work. I basically asked him to push me a little around this -- so when I stop mid-sentence he'll say, "tell me. It's OK." Or "I can hear it, go ahead." This makes is safe over and over again. And he is really great about ending with "I'm glad you told me that. I'm OK with it, you don't need to freak out later about what you said."
I still do, but...
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