Posted by Maynerd on November 5, 2005, at 2:04:23
In reply to having such a hard time in T and scared *Warning*, posted by Frida on November 3, 2005, at 22:05:11
You are on the right path, all is not lost, you just have to be patient. As I learned myself while working through my own verbal and physical abuse history, these sort of things take time. It is sort of like peeling an onion, it can only really be done one layer at a time. It took quite a while for me to feel safe enough to open up and trust someone, even today I still find myself being introverted and guarded around people. Letting go is so darn hard, yet wanted so bad. You have things going for you, things that will help make the work easier for you. First, you want to let it go and are willing to work towards it. Second, you have a T who sounds like they really care about you, this is without a doubt something that is very good. Third, you have the love and support of a faceless family right here that care about your well being and peace of mind. I won't lie to you, it is darn hard, but well worth it.
My prayers are definately with you and the little boy, I believe in you both.
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