Posted by Shortelise on September 9, 2005, at 13:57:51
In reply to Lying Therapist, posted by cricket on September 9, 2005, at 8:49:02
From your perspective, I hate this guy. He sounds like a sh*t, the worst kind of therapist, making you feel crazy for your perceptions. Really, I hate him.
But there is always the other side of the coin, the "projection" stuff, and from out here I can't tell if it is you or it is him.
From what you write, and you seem to make sense, I think it's him, and that your perceptions are valid, and that you should get the honk out of there and into therapy with a decent therapist. But I could be so wrong.
That's the problem with this kind of contact we have here. On the one hand, I really want to support you and your feelings, but on the other hand, what if you *are* projecting all this onto him?
But ugh, I'd hate him if he dealt with my projecting the way he is with yours, if that's what it is. I'd hate him if it wasn't projecting and he dealt with it the way you describe. Ok, I just hate your T. As angry as I have been at mine at times, I always always work through it with him, and almost always he owns what I think is his stuff. Sometimes we do disagree on whose stuff it is, but that is so so rare.
Cricket, I am sorry. I hope I am not adding to your confusion.
ShortE
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