Posted by daisym on September 9, 2005, at 10:53:38
In reply to Lying Therapist, posted by cricket on September 9, 2005, at 8:49:02
Sometimes you really have done all you can with a particular therapist and things have changed in a way that make it time to move on. I think it is really hard to sort out whether it is a negative transference or not, but if you feel you are getting worse and you've tried a number of things, taking a break or getting a consultation with someone else might really help.
I'm sorry it is so rough and you feel you can't talk to him in a way that he will own it. It is never all on one person, in any kind of a relationship. Two people create the dynamic in a unique way.
I'll be interested to hear how he reacts to your decision. It isn't like this should be a surprise, you've obviously been trying to talk to him about it.
(((Cricket)))
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