Posted by pinkeye on July 10, 2005, at 22:02:47
In reply to pain, continued, posted by shrinking violet on July 10, 2005, at 11:55:38
((SV))
It is definitely ok to write here as much as you need about this issue or any issue.. that is what babble is for.take care.. take really really good care of you.. you didn't deserve this.. lot of people are like you and their therapists handle them very very well.. I am pretty sure your therapist couldn't handle her issues and thought it best to terminate you - which is of course wrong move on her part.. but, even God makes wrong moves several times.. he takes away people closest to us, let innocent kids go through horrible cruelites, so after all, your T is just a human. And she failed big time, and isn't realizing it or doesn't have the strength to acknowledge her mistakes to you.. But that is her mistake - not yours.
For me, acknowledging that was a major part in moving on - that my ex T did a huge mistake in terminating me like that. Maybe he had his good reasons, but what it put me through was horrible.. and what your T putting you through is also horrible. You have to acknowledge that - that the huge part of the responsibility lies in your T's shoulder too. SEnding her a letter might even help close it for you. It did for me.. I wrote him an angry letter, telling him everything. And it really helped.
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