Posted by jammerlich on July 10, 2005, at 14:44:06
In reply to pain, continued, posted by shrinking violet on July 10, 2005, at 11:55:38
SV,
I'm sorry it's been so hard. I think I might understand a little how you're feeling. It's been months and I'm still wondering if the day will *ever* come when I can wake up and my very first thought isn't of her (my ex-T).
And you're SO right. These are the people who aren't supposed to hurt us. I remember mine telling me that she'd never hurt me on purpose. I'd like to tell her she probably shouldn't say that to people. I certainly don't think that hurting me was her ultimate goal or that she wanted to do it, but she knew dumping me the way she did would hurt me and she did it anyway. To me, that's on purpose.
And I would never tell you to see someone else. I'm sick of hearing it myself. Personally, I feel like my ability to trust has been so damaged I might never be able to do it again. So I don't blame you one bit for not wanting to see someone else.
I wish I could sit with you in person and we could just talk until there are no words or tears left. I have four pets who seem awfully patient with soaking up the tears. I'd be happy to share.
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