Posted by daisym on July 4, 2005, at 17:24:38
In reply to Re: 3 days and counting...(a little long), posted by caraher on July 4, 2005, at 16:13:35
This isn't a husband bash, but yes, he did tell me in a number of ways that he is frustrated with my moping around, he doesn't like the weight gain (over the past 5 years) and when we talked about suicide, he said he needs me here because he can't take care of things, including himself, especially when he is really sick. It's OK, I've completely set up my life so that people let me take care of everything, because I've always done it so well and so efficiently. It is completely unfair to turn around and now say, "OK, my turn. Sorry, but I can't do that for you anymore."
Thanks for saying I'm not pathetic. I wish you weren't working today.
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