Posted by happyflower on June 23, 2005, at 20:34:57
In reply to Re: Would you ask your T if he is attracted to you? » happyflower, posted by Jazzed on June 23, 2005, at 17:35:54
I guess since he might night answer my question or turn it around on me and why I want to know, I guess there is no point in asking, making us both feel uncomfortable. We are in such a good place right now, I don't want things to change.
I still do think he is attracted to me, and if he is, and I "expose" him, his boundries could tighten, and that wouldn't feel good.
I guess I can just enjoy myself knowing that such a great guy like him could be interested in me, if we met in another place and time. The funny thing is that all the changes in him, it being anyone else, I would say that they are trying to impress me because they like me and want to show that they are interested in me.Oh, well, I guess I will just keep my little secret! Who knows maybe after therapy is over, he will confess his dying love for me, and wants to wait the 2 year waiting period so I can fufill his love! lol A girl can dream, can't I?
If he acts odd again when I bring up sex, I will ask him about it. The last time I was talking about when women peak sexually in their 30's and that now I know what it felt like to be a guy at 18. This is an example when he looks away and down. I guess it is too much for him to know he has a horny women accross him, especially since he is attracted to me. Boy, it must be so tough to be a T. But come to think of it, If I said that to most guys, would they get turned on? Maybe I am being inappropiate?
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