Posted by Jazzed on June 23, 2005, at 21:38:07
In reply to My decision! :), posted by happyflower on June 23, 2005, at 20:34:57
> I guess since he might night answer my question or turn it around on me and why I want to know, I guess there is no point in asking, making us both feel uncomfortable. We are in such a good place right now, I don't want things to change.
Yeah, you're right, and since you have the feeling he is attracted to you maybe it will be up to him whether he just can't stand it anymore, and has to confess to you. Keep us posted. Great material for fantasies!
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> I still do think he is attracted to me, and if he is, and I "expose" him, his boundries could tighten, and that wouldn't feel good.No, you're right, that would feel really bad.
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> Oh, well, I guess I will just keep my little secret! Who knows maybe after therapy is over, he will confess his dying love for me, and wants to wait the 2 year waiting period so I can fufill his love! lol A girl can dream, can't I?Sure, why not?! Like Tamar said, he's only human!
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> If he acts odd again when I bring up sex, I will ask him about it.I think that's more than reasonable. You shouldn't feel funny talking about sex with your T, if you're comefortable with it! I'd be in trouble because I love to talk about sex! It's a big deal in my life, so it WILL come up, heck it HAS come up already! No problems there, that's for sure! I can tell my new T is willing and able to talk about it anytime.
>I guess it is too much for him to know he has a horny women accross him, especially since he is attracted to me. Boy, it must be so tough to be a T. But come to think of it, If I said that to most guys, would they get turned on? Maybe I am being inappropiate?
LMAO!!!! Nope, I don't think that's inappropriate. Sounds like an okay topic to me. Maybe sex should come up again on purpose, so you can have your talk with him? Make it safe for you though, so he doesn't tighten up those boundaries.Jazzy
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