Posted by pinkeye on June 23, 2005, at 17:02:12
In reply to Do you think my T has the hots for me? (nm), posted by happyflower on June 23, 2005, at 16:55:41
The answer to all your question is - maybe he is, maybe he isn't. But you would never know. He most likely won't admit even if he is madly in love with you and thinks of you all the time. And he won't admit if he doesn't like you at all. So as much as you can't help it, it is a blind alley.
Realistically, all of us get attracted to lot of people mildly.. I have got attracted to atleast 20 - 30 of my colleagues mildly at somepoint or the other. Usually it passes within a day or few days or sometimes few weeks.
The kind of attraction that would be worth considering is if it runs over several months - if you consistently think of the same person for a long time.. And I really don't think your T would have the bandwith to think about any client of his for that length of time, because he probably sees lot of women very intimately, so I wonder if it would have taken all feelings out of him
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