Posted by happyflower on June 23, 2005, at 16:45:47
In reply to Would you ask your T if he is attracted to you?, posted by happyflower on June 23, 2005, at 16:25:52
He knows I am into gardening and such, well last session I notice he had a orchid in his window that wasn't there before, in fact he never had any plants. Then he brought up Frank Sintra, because he knows I like that kind of music.
Then he mentioned "our relationship" which he never said that before. I know it is a theraputice relationship but still he never referred to " our relationship". I hate to rock the boat because we connect so nicely and honesty we have so much in common. I have given up the fantasy about being with him, but this is messing up my head. Am I just seeing things? I was finally over my erotic transference, and now it seems like he has some of his countertrasference to deal with, or maybe he just likes me and I am making too much of this. I would hate to ruin my all of this for asking him this question. I am finally at the point where I am comfortable with him, and I don't want to mess it all up. This is all having me thinking about being with him romantically again.
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