Posted by Susan47 on May 2, 2005, at 13:11:13
In reply to Re: The Thing I think I'm beginning to Understand » Susan47, posted by pinkeye on May 1, 2005, at 17:31:07
Wow. I'm so happy, to be able to say that not having a relationship with my own dad, won't kill me. Not in the least. Not at all. It will be sad, but then, it's been a sad relationship from the day I was conceived. Nothing is new. But I can be strong in my self-respect and self-caring, so I can give him some of that too, some of that will naturally rub off on him. He just can't have it, it's not his possession to keep, anymore, and do what he likes with.
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