Posted by Dinah on January 9, 2005, at 4:32:17
Because I know he's a seriously religious Christian. He doesn't shout it out or try to convert me. But I know he's relatively ummm.... orthodox, shall I say, in terms of sexuality especially. Not judgemental exactly. I wouldn't say that. But rather self consciously nonjudgemental.
So while I'm open with him about nearly everything, there are pockets of things that I'm not really willing to tell him because I know his response wouldn't be "Oh, how interesting. Tell me more." but more "mmmmm....."
Of course, this may just be my perception, fed by shame on my part. But I don't *feel* particularly ashamed. And I'm so very good on picking up his reactions. I just feel the need for a sudden swerve at times.
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