Posted by Susan47 on August 24, 2004, at 15:39:44
In reply to Re: Transference Insight » vwoolf, posted by fallsfall on August 24, 2004, at 12:24:26
My father is a person who controlled me all my life; the hardest thing I ever did was piss him off and hurt him by breaking my connection, but I did it, and I want to tell you the reality wasn't as hard as I imagined. It was easier. And my life is getting better than I ever imagined it could be; it's internal changes, not so much external, although people like me more because now I no longer feel like I have to hide my real being. I just had no idea of the powerful negativity involved in our father/daughter relationship (yuck, it bothers me even to refer to myself as his daughter, yuck ew gross).
Sending (((((*))))) your way.
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