Posted by Susan47 on August 25, 2004, at 11:23:17
In reply to Re: Transference Insight » Susan47, posted by vwoolf on August 25, 2004, at 4:24:02
I'm so sorry this happened to you. It would have been really hard for me if my father died before I was able to see him for the person he was. I think I might be stuck in that emotional child, never having been able to grow up with him around to be able to see him as teens start to see their parents, then as adults the way we can integrate them into our experience and make judgments and decisions from that. It took me much too long as it was. I know people who've separated from their (living) parents at an earlier age and fared much better than I did. But, better late than never, right? I wish you all the best in getting through this. ((((vwoolf))))
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