Posted by Racer on March 29, 2004, at 9:38:58
In reply to Re: Hey, some folks like chubby chicks! » lucy stone, posted by lonelygirl on March 28, 2004, at 17:36:52
One of the most drop dead sexy chicks I've ever known *admitted* to being over 170# at just under 5'0", and we're talking drool cups handed out to the audience when she was on stage. Weight really doesn't have much to do with beauty or sexiness or any of those things. Attitude has EVERYTHING to do with it. This woman simply WAS sexy as all get out.
And if you believe you're carrying around a beautiful aspect, maybe lovely eyes, pretty hands, whatever, you'll convince everyone else of it, too. Trust me on this, since I've been trying to figure this out for a lot longer than you've been alive! Again, I give you permission to be beautiful at any size -- and with all the problems I've got right now, you don't want to invalidate me by not taking advantage of that permission, do you? (Hey, that sort of guilt thing works on me when I'm being hard on myself. Figured it was worth a try...)
Healing thoughts with you, and with Lucy Stone, too.
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