Posted by Dinah on March 27, 2004, at 20:23:23
In reply to Re: juicey funny bits abt u therapists wife » Fallen4myT, posted by lonelygirl on March 27, 2004, at 19:36:32
I'm ugly and fat, and my husband loves me just fine. And I'm not kidding. I've got skin tags around my eyes that look just like warts. All the little capillaries around my face broke the other day so I'm all blotchy. I've got little beady close together eyes and a few chins. Oh, and don't forget the thin hair.
People who don't know me well tend not to notice me at all, which I see as a sort of advantage to being fat and ugly. But it doesn't mean I'm not loveable. My husband loves me and finds me sexually attractive. My son thinks I look just right for a Mom. I've got a handful of really good friends. And my therapist feels comfortable with me and I think is at least a bit fond of me.
I think you overestimate the looks thing. And that's coming from an ugly fat person. I do know that there is prejudice out there, but people who come to know you can still like you.
As for your personality, you don't show any hideous traits in your posts. :) You seem intelligent and appear to care about the feelings of other people. What's not to like?
But if there are things about the way you act that you'd like to change, that's ok too. Isn't that why we're all in therapy?
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