Posted by Kind Girl on February 5, 2004, at 19:50:26
In reply to Re: I ask myself..., posted by Racer on February 4, 2004, at 20:21:32
Hey you guys...I wrote a really long reply and then lost it somehow!!! But I want to say thanks for everyone opening up and sharing....I did order that book In Session online today so I am looking forward to reading that asap.
Everyone here has shared great wisdom....it comforts me to know I am not alone.
I have a horrible mother who was very abusive to me from the time I was an infant and I have a lot of baby stuff I am working on....I am sure the longings and crying for her are all tied into that somehow.
I also think that the urges and instinctual things we feel involuntarily can get all mixed up....like "am I feeling sexual or do I just want to nurse from my mommy I never had?"....those are the kinds of questions I ask....and since the urge and desire is so HUGE and so involuntary...WHAM! I go to sex right away in my mind...afterall, what do I call adult feelings of desire that are involuntary?....
Anyway, thanks so much to all who shared...you really helped.
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