Posted by Lyrical13 on January 18, 2004, at 3:17:46
In reply to counselor search idea, posted by Lyrical13 on January 18, 2004, at 3:11:34
OK..my next question is this. My sister's behavior is having a big impact on her relationships with others. She has these rages and lashes out at everyone. Yells at my parents and says mean hurtful things. Yet I know that at heart she is a very loving caring sensitive person. I think she is just hurting so much inside. And I also think she is BP and the anger/irritability etc. is part of that.
Here's the question. My brother and his wife are trying to keep their 4 yr old daughter away from her as much as possible because she has started acting like my sis..saying some terrible things. My sis would be crushed if she knew this since our neice is the light of her life. Should I tell her? The only reason I would is to convince her to get help before she damages this relationship for good or something hurtful is said to her. I don't want to hurt her but she doesn't seem to realize the impact of her behavior. Although maybe she does...I have magnetic poetry things on my fridge and when she was over one night we were fooling around making up sentences etc. She wrote, "I am the monster". That breaks my heart. Please advise on this...
L13
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