Posted by judy1 on September 6, 2003, at 13:55:18
In reply to I ticked off T. He sais he will NEVER see me again, posted by Eggy on September 5, 2003, at 23:10:15
It is SO tough to have a borderline personality- you can't stop yourself from pushing and pushing-always against the people you care most about. the only positive I can give you is you WILL grow out of it, I don't know your age is but there is a maturing out (I've done it myself). Since I have done what you did, the way I handled it was to find someone who specialized in borderline disorders, they tend to be more patient then other therapists. it took a while to find her, but she really did help me a great deal. what are your options under your insurance? can you afford to go private? If not, speak to whoever handles the mental health part of your insurance and get some names of people outside your ex-therps group. you don't want to have a 'difficult' label (been there too) so the best thing is to find someone who doesn't know your ex-therp and just explain things didn't work out. you will get through this, you're very fortunate to have a supportive spouse. try to mend things with your pdoc to have some continuity. take care, judy
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