Posted by Jickstress on December 4, 2002, at 21:57:03
In reply to Re: crush on therapist..boundries, schmoundries » Ginjoint, posted by namesake on December 4, 2002, at 11:42:22
Quite frankly, namesake, It sounds as though your idea that you need to see this man in order to have closure is simply a way to rationalize setting up a meeting with him so you can throw yourself at him. If he was interested, he would have bitten the first time around.
Remember that when you fantasize about someone you have the opportunity to project onto him all of the qualities you want him him to have, and you can make the "relationship" work the way you want it to. This man has likely taken on, in your mind, much of what you feel is lacking in your current partner and relationship. Reality often differs dramatically from fantasy.
I hope I haven't upset you. I only attempt to be realistic.
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