Posted by NikkiT2 on November 23, 2006, at 0:53:42
In reply to Re: Actually, scratch that..., posted by ElaineM on November 22, 2006, at 21:12:32
Deneb,
I think *alot* of the frustration that people show here, is because advice is given and then seemingly ignored.. I know I have stopped posting to you as I only have so much to give these days, and being, well, bascially ignored when I was offering advice to you was pretty hurtful.
Alot of people have said you need more than just your apointments with your Pdoc.. I doubt very much your Pdoc has gne and gne the years of study required to be a clinical psychologist, and that is what you need.. a properly trained therapist. You have ALOT of problems, and sometimes some seem to "occur" out of the blue in order for your to avoid other issues - such as your college work.
I think its a responsibility thing. Until you sit up and take responsibility, and say "I willg o and get the help I need" then some people will be feeling worn down, and frustrated with you.
Racer, and I, have mentioned DBT on many occasions.. I really do believe this is something that would benefit you hugely. Your Pdoc diagnosed BPD, but doesn't seem to be offering you any of the spcyhological therapies that have a HUGE evenidence base as helping with BPD. Meds can only help control certain symptoms.. Meds kept me alive long enough to receive decent behavoural therapy and that was all.
Please, ask your Pdoc about a referral to a therapist and a if possible, a DBT one. Start receiving the help you need in order to start your recovery..
Nikki
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