Posted by crazy teresa on January 8, 2006, at 16:49:06
In reply to Re: Hysterically (not the good kind) LMAO, bobster, posted by alexandra_k on January 8, 2006, at 15:29:24
Cough, cough, cough. Sorry, I was choking on bull sh*t. I won’t get those cough drops again, that’s for sure.
What part of DO NOT POST is not understood here?
Sigh. I thought I had come so far. Somebody please send me the links explaining DNP, so I can use this handy tool effectively. Is there a glitch in this function? Or am I just not using/understanding it correctly?
I did my receiving in the spirit it with which it was sent… as I CLEARLY explained above. Blame was laid completely to me, for conclusions jumped to.
Silly me for thinking a true apology consists of accepting full responsibility for a perceived wrong, whether one personally feels he was wrong or not; not a mere manipulation in the arrangement of words. How in the world did I come up with such a notion??? Anyway, I'm sorry and I won’t make that mistake again.
“Complain away if it helps“???
I really don’t appreciate being made to feel as if I am being uncivil for explaining how I feel! I am left feeling hurt and accused for following the rules. And I feel as if my boundries have been seriously violated, like I have to be told how to feel. But they’re my feeling aren’t they? And they really hurt and I feel like no one cares that they hurt. All after a DNP, besides. I was trying to avoid conflict by that DNP. I've never even used one before.
make sure dr-bob sees it and make sure he blocks me if it helps... Am I being accused (of tattletailing?) because bobster’s rules should include all of us? I hope you’re not feeling accused or put down bobster. We know you’re capable of reading our post on your own.
((((((((((bobster))))))))))
And doesn’t it suck when one is called out for breaking our rules? I believe I have seen post, after post, after post, after post asking bobster, “Is this civil?”, and I never fully understood why. But civility rules need to apply all of us, not just when we want them to. And I am so thankful that they do.
I’ve learned this the hard way. It’s never easy to learn to look outside of ourselves and do what’s right for the good of all of us, but I will sincerely continue to try. And I will continue to encourage other posters to do this as well.
poster:crazy teresa
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URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20051205/msgs/596698.html