Posted by alexandra_k on January 8, 2006, at 15:29:24
In reply to Re: Hysterically (not the good kind) LMAO, bobster » thuso, posted by alexandra_k on January 8, 2006, at 14:52:38
it is funny (funny strange not funny ha ha)
about lawyers...being careful to be civil here ;-)
when i think of getting someone off on a technical glitch i do feel a little...
i'm not sure there is a word for that that i can make it clear it is my response rather than a judgement about the act...
distaste
thats what i'm trying to convey
i feel that there is something distasteful about that
(but i mean to convey that as a feeling in response rather than that the act of doing that is distasteful)
sometimes it can be hard to express...i know a few people who have done law
started out wanting to do criminal law
and then they realised they had no choice whatsoever in which clients they took on
aside from whether they had the relevant knowledge to defendi'm not sure on our system over here... i think the client is allowed to say they did it to their lawyer and their lawyer is still bound to defend them...
and they decided not to do criminal law because they felt the distaste thing...
but me...
i don't think i'd change careers over it...
or specialities over it...
because...
i dunno.
dunno.anyways...
what i wanted to convey...
was that i wanted to try and make it up to the person.
to try and put things right.
which can be hard to do when there is a dnp.i mean...
dnp's are supposed to be something of a last resort...
when people have tried to put things right and don't seem to be able to...but i'm not sure that we have tried to put things right.
and just in case the request came because the person thinks i don't like them
and am trying to pick on them
or make a fool of them or something like that...i was thinking that was the problem...
the reason for the request...in that case it could make a difference if the person knew that it wasn't about that.
i like the person plenty
i enjoy a lot of the lighthearted threads...
i get a laugh
i get a smile
but i don't really know what to say in response...
because i find social chat hard...
and that is a failing i have
and it leads to social dis-ease in my interactions at times.
and maybe it is like how sometimes peopple don't know what to say in response to some of my posts...
well i find the social chatter posts hard to respond to at times...but maybe i should make more of an effort...
and things would run smoother...
sorry.
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