Posted by alexandra_k on January 8, 2006, at 14:52:38
In reply to Re: Hysterically (not the good kind) LMAO, bobster » crazy teresa, posted by thuso on January 8, 2006, at 14:07:08
hmm... a lawyer, eh?
i don't know.
my point... was to apologise because i believed that an apology was due.
like i said in the babblemail... i might well get blocked for doing this but i want to give an apology because i believe an apology is due.
i'm sorry that that couldn't be received in the spirit in which it was intended.
i mean, complain away if it helps...
make sure dr-bob sees it and make sure he blocks me if it helps...but it would mean a whole heap more to me if the apology could be accepted in the spirit in which is was given.
because... i do indeed risk a blocking for having offered it. and yet... i thought an apology might mean more to the other person than a blocking would hurt me.
and i haven't been the most supportive...
not intentionally...
oftentimes i do do the 'analytic thing' on posts. and yeah, i guess people tolerate that better (knowing i don't mean it as a personal criticism) when i babble with them more and show some support and understanding to them as well.
and...
i just realised that i have only really talked to crazy t on a few occasions...
and that most of them were to disagree :-(
and so...
i can see why she might feel like i just keep jumping on her and that i might not like her or something like that :-(
and if i was in her position i would feel similarly.
and that would hurt.
and so i am sorry for that.
and it isn't about being a lawyer...
my intention isn't to 'get off' a block.
in this case i could get blocked for apologising
but i wouldn't get blocked if i didn't apologise.so really...
it is fairly much the other way around.
i'm sorry people are hurting...
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