Posted by alchemy on September 25, 2012, at 19:07:15
In reply to I'm in trouble, posted by ChicagoKat on September 24, 2012, at 18:55:34
My heart goes out to you. Hearing that would have made my desperation and depression worse, we are already in a sensitive state. It is frustrating when other people do not understand and therefore seem to be judgemental. This can also mean that they may say the wrong thing thinking that they are helping.
I don't want to sound like I am being too critical of your husband. I am not personally married. I do have a strained relationship with my brother because he is critical that I have these problems.
It is often helpful for others to hear other people (especially those viewed as professionals)try and explain. Sometimes even reading about it, if they are willing. I wonder if even going to a male counselor would be more beneficial for him.
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