Posted by pulse on June 18, 2006, at 19:14:04
In reply to Victims? Targets? :-( (nm), posted by Deneb on June 17, 2006, at 22:08:53
:~( NOT :-(
two of the many, many examples, of which i know to be true:
VICTIM:
me - almost killed; charge: attempted murder. crime was completed premeditated by this bpd woman, with whom i was not in an intimate relationship. perpetrator: all 9 bpd criteria, and to a high degree.
i was deemed the victim from outset, by responding officers. my life-threatening experience, and the resulting extreme injuries to my person, were cited as the most obvious - and clearly undeniable - reasons.my 'crime': saying something kind and respectful of her boundaries. could not have been misinterpreted by anyone. period.
TARGET:
my current therapist in another state. bpd client stalked her for over a year. police finally had to be brought in.
fyi: i'm often asked to be a special consultant re: this subject. 5 years, now. more often than not, i accept.
i will not debate this.
poster:pulse
thread:655463
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