Posted by alexandra_k on November 4, 2005, at 17:38:42
In reply to Re: Apologies » ClearSkies, posted by alexandra_k on November 4, 2005, at 16:11:03
it can be stifling to not post things that lead to debate or argument...
that was what you were getting at?
yeah. it can be stifling to not post things because one shows more concern for how other people are likely to feel (regardless of whether that is more their issue than a problem with the posts objectively considered).
i won't do that.
i won't be silenced because of that.but when i could have said what i needed to say in a way that is less likely to upset people...
then yeah. i regret not having done that.
if you are opposed to 'argument' or 'debate' as a matter of principle...
you may just want to avoid my posts
because that is something i do sometimes
i need to get better at how i express myself
i need to get better at not upsetting people needlessly
but i'm not going to stop saying what i think
i'm not going to stop having arguments / debates with peopleif you don't like that about my posts than you best avoid them.
because i need to express myself for my sanity
and i refuse to alter that because of the feelings of others
moderate...
work towards comprimise...
yes
cease...
no
i'll be blocked for a year first...
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