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Re: dramas

Posted by alexandra_k on June 3, 2020, at 22:34:10

In reply to Re: contempt, posted by alexandra_k on June 3, 2020, at 22:26:58

and I know there are people who are caught in this dramatic sort of a drama. women who cry out about abuse so you put them in independent accommodation (with their children) and then after a couple days the guy has moved in with them (the woman phoned him up and invited him over) and they have made up...

and then the next night she's phoning asking for help to get away...

and then the next night she's inviting him over...

and there are of course complex cases like that. that are difficult. clearly the help that is being offered isn't adequate....

but it's important not to think that ALL cases of women asking for help is like that.

probably the vast majority is not.

but they over-focus on the cases that suit them.

like how most maori are not carrying guns about. most maori gang members who are involved in violent crime are involved in violent crime only with 'consenting adults' in the form of rival gang members. actual violence to non-gang members (collateral damage) is low for maori gangs.

there is something about raping a woman as requisite for membership for one gang... but i actually don't think that is the case... i think you are required to do sometihng to demonstrate committment to the gang... but i think that often is about serving jail time for a gang members offence for something you did not do (e.g., taking a 6 month jail term to cover for a higher up who would get 20+ years)... i think that is more the truth of it...

becuase, you know, the government is really really great at giving people a viable way of life outside gangs. haha.

those night school classes so they can train to become... paramedics. police. you know... good jobs for good people.





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