Posted by LegWarmers on April 5, 2006, at 17:36:59
In reply to Re: It should be ok to ask to hug, posted by gardenergirl on April 5, 2006, at 13:56:23
I prefer a good massage to a hug : )
Just thought Id tell y'all!! Does that make me emotionally distant?
you know.. I agree hugs are very intimate. And i have been asked for a hug, I found it starnge to be asked, Can i have a hug (to me)? Of course i gave it. But some people love to hug so I suppose it gets balanced out. it is a thing I do with friends. i guess hugs seem to happen for me when appropriate... im now not sure why I just wrote all this but Ill send it out anyway. : D oh i think my point was, that massages are better then hugs and IMO hugs are better when they just happen and are not thought about first. And that really is true for a lot of things according to my theory on life. Which ill admit is probably weird.
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