Posted by sunny10 on March 15, 2005, at 8:06:22
In reply to Re: just existing... » AuntieMel, posted by antigua on March 14, 2005, at 16:34:39
I finally "snapped" yesterday from the stress- accused him of using; he swore he wasn't and was angry with me for "bringing this up out of nowhere". He truly had no idea that I was freaking out for over a week.
I think that I have become co-dependent. I try to take care of him more than I take care of myself and since I "can't solve his problems for him", it is, of course, an exhausting an fruitless battle that no one wins...
I picked up a couple of books on how to take care of myself and build some of those boundaries you ladies were talking about.
I hope I can count on you guys 'cause I know I'll have questions!
I love you guys!
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