Posted by shadows721 on May 29, 2004, at 17:36:38
In reply to I did something very bad last night..., posted by Wildflower on May 28, 2004, at 9:06:28
I had a relationship like that, but they guy was also physically abusive. I found that it was more of an addiction than real love. I had to replace this guy and stay physically away from him. All he was to my subconscious was a carbon copy replay of unresolved pain from my childhood. Some how, the subconscious thinks that I could get that love that I didn't get from another loser. Nope again.
You've got to protect yourself sometimes from yourself. It seems the mind really likes to just reinact past hurts with other people. Look at the traits of this guy and look of the traits of the people that raised you. You may find a similiarity. If not, there maybe a blind spot that will continue to play out in future relationships.
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