Posted by tootercat on May 28, 2004, at 9:52:17
In reply to I did something very bad last night..., posted by Wildflower on May 28, 2004, at 9:06:28
Wildflower,
First of all.....STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP! Otherwise you are being verbally abusive to yourself. We all want to love and be loved and sometimes we do unwise things in order to fulfill our needs. The best thing you can do is to be aware of how this date made you feel and learn from it and by all means be honest and share those feelings with your T. As long as it was not an obvious threat to your "being" it is not her job to "stop" you from doing anything. When we put the onus of a decision on other people it just makes us a victim. Take responsibilty for yourself and your actions and you will be more "in charge" of what happens in your life. But again don't berate yourself when you aren't happy with your choice. Today is a new day and you are given another 24 hours to experience being human.
Mucho hugs,
Tooter
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