Posted by Dog on December 16, 2003, at 11:44:34
In reply to Re: Bad poker face » Dog, posted by DeeJay on December 16, 2003, at 10:31:45
Deej, Hawaii sounds great! my cousin and a buddy saved up money for a round-trip ticket there and that is about all they had... they lived on the beach for 6 weeks just eating at the Lu-als (sp?) the hotels and different people had at the beach areas...they lived in a tent with no money for that whole time...
i think you're doing fine... sounds like you had a lot of guys around you growing up and now you feel greatly at ease around men... not that there's any hanky-panky going on... its just that that is what you are used to...if your relationship w/ beau evolves though, you might have to cut ties with old boyfriends...even if it is only via email, for fidelity's sake...its one of those gray areas, i guess...but you'll know what to do...
the thing is: you are very young! it doesn't feel like it, i know, but you'll look back and see...just have fun and be...sometimes its not good to psychoanalyze yourself too much... self-obsession they call it, though i'm that way alot..its not good to do that too much...i am blessed with a daughter.. she's 9 now.. we're homeschooling and its going great...she is very nearly the perfect child...it worries me sometimes that she is so perfect...my wife had pre-eclampsia and i nearly lost both of them... my wife had to be hospitalized for two weeks before the birth, but everything turned out fine...
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> No dreams of a big fancy wedding. I want to go to Hawaii and get married on the beach in flip flops, then come home and have a party. It's too expensive...and just a big show to me, that seems unnecessary.
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> I'm wowed at the amount of infidelity you have seen, and even more so at how much you love your wife. That is so great. I know my beau has major insecurities because I have been with a few more people than he has...and had major relationships, where this is his first. It can be very difficult because I am very impatient. I don't know. My sailor friend says he sees me as that....a friend...and I do to, with him. And I know it's a fantasy and we had good times, but I am with a new person now....I just can't turn off my brain. Do you have kids?....I think I remember you saying that?....I could be wrong.....
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> Deej
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